



Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, that you may be able to approve what is the perfect will of God Romans 12:2
The questions from kids this little are amazing…
What is sin? What a moment to explain the them death and then life in Christ
Why did Jesus die?
How do tree’s grow?
Reading a book and kids are bullying…..” They aren’t being kind and tendered hearted, I would let the kids play with me”
What is a false idol?
What could Daniel do? Interpret dreams
Sometimes I’m selfish and only think about myself God says to have no other gods before me, so its sin
Jacob and Eli playing in the dirt the best of buds
Jacob and Eli sliding down tube slides and laughing as they build the tightest of brother bonds. PRICELESS
Then this question out of the blue….
When will I go to school…..ummmmmm
My answer is what is BEST is for kids to be home with us so that we are the ones answering their questions. They don’t understand why they are staying home but We have made this decision for them because it is the best place to be discipled to love God and to teach them to love Him first…. If they weren’t home with me these questions would be lost in a sea of kids and the world at a public school. So excited and so thankful to be with them it is hard at times but amazing as well..wish I could remember all the questions they ask the list is endless and wonderful.. and some day we will let them go when they are saved, and ready to face the world with Christ dwelling in their hearts to take over and guide them!! Our job to some degree will be done.
Anyone else out there that homeschools, how do you answer this question over the years?
Not really looking for arguments for public school…
Happy Heart?
As Craig and I are growing in the Word. A thought has crossed my mind and then talking to a couple people the answer seems much clearer now!!
For a long time when we train our little ones we say “Show me your HAPPY HEART!” When we want to see them obeying “with a happy heart” or they have a pouty look on their faces... we say “show me your happy heart” they SMILE real big and we say good job!! It is great that they are complying but we think there is a better method now...
Well thinking through this more with lots of other mixed up thoughts that fly in and out of my brain throughout the day!!!!! I have been thinking a lot about something our discipleship counselor has taught us regarding our kids... He has asked us are we trying to make our kids sinless? Is our goal as we train them that they would sin no more? Well this really made me think because as their little minds and bodies continue at times to do the same stuff day in and day out that is sin... what is our goal... to get them to stop doing it, to just stop SINNING!!!! I have come to understand more clearly today and hopefully each day that NO my goal is not to have them stop sinning it is to teach them a few things:
God's will for us is that we be TRANSFORMED, HOW? By the renewing of our minds its that simple.......His desire is not that our children would stop sinning or look like a good Christian...to be fake on the outside with a happy heart, but that they would be transformed from the inside out. A transformed life because of HIM!!!
God loves them
And in return we LOVE him because He loved us
We obey God out of Love, out of reverence, awe for what He did in sending his son to die for us.
They obey Mommy and Daddy out of FEAR? No out of Love because they love us and desire to please us with their behavior, that hopefully will transfer to God some day.
What does this look like with a little one? Here's how it goes at my house.....
Jacob you sinned when you...........You need to confess that to God (teaching them to see their sin and turn from it)
“Sorry God I disobeyed you when I …....... (confession)
Jacob lets thank God that he has forgiven you.....
“God thank you that you died on the cross for me, thank you that you forgive me.........
Then walking in victory not defeat not shame, guilt or fear!!!! Teach them they are alive in Christ and no longer under the condemnation of SIN and DEATH!
The reason for this is to show him that he is not perfect and he needs JESUS to show him that the law brings death and he can never be right according to the law....but Jesus brings forgiveness and LIFE!!
Back to the original idea about a happy heart!! I believe that when I was telling my kids to have a happy heart its fonney, fake, Also I was teaching them to try to fix their sin in the flesh. Instead of pointing them back to Christ. I was teaching them to put on a happy face and not actually deal with the situation. So all that said now I will be teaching my children to have joy, whether they like the situation or the request they can choose to obey and have joy and also to be content with the situation. Super exciting for me when God shows me something I have been doing that was slightly off base.
Hope that was kinda clear... writing is not my gifting, talking instead HAHAHHA
Let me know your ideas and if you have more questions would be happy to talk!